I guess I just feel like I'm the only one thinking back years or months or days and thinking "What if I handled that situation with more grace and dignity?" Or "What if that person never came into my life?" Or maybe even "What if I didn't struggle with that sin in that one instant? Would it change who I am today?"
I feel like these are such meaningless and pointless questions. They're gone. Done. Over. Never able to be taken back.
I'm not saying all "What Ifs" are bad. I think a lot of them are GREAT. You just have to make them that way. For example:
What if tomorrow I show someone Christ's love?
What if someone comes to Christ because I stopped and listened to them talk?
What if someone who feels lonely needs me to be a friend to them? Will I take the challenge?
What if I put away my selfish, ignorant pride and said those words that need to be said and heard..."I'm sorry".